second guessing

Stuck? Practice Flexible and Accurate Thinking

Published on April 25, 2016 at 1:26 pm

Check your thinking against three common thinking errors. 1. Tunnel Vision. Do you tend to have tunnel vision? Check yourself. Are you focusing too much on the details and not enough on the big picture? Do you see the bigger picture? Have you missed anything? Ask others “What am I missing?” 2. Personalizing. Some of us (myself included) tend to ... View Article »

Marry your decisions

Published on June 15, 2012 at 1:31 pm

Marry decisions, don’t date them. First, do your homework, conduct a thorough cost analysis or simply list the pro and cons. Then discuss your decision with someone trustworthy and objective. Then commit.  A good marriage requires commitment. When we “marry” our decisions, we commit to the process. We move forward with our vision for the future.  Happily married people do ... View Article »